Stop Losing The Same Fight
Be powerful. Control yourself, not the other person. That single principle is the difference between losing the same fight on a loop and ending the cycle for good.
"God is changing my heart from a state of confusion and fighting with myself to loving myself because God created me with love. I found a Father I never knew."
Angie - KYLO University Student
Experience Life-Changing Transformation
Most of us grew up watching adults struggle to navigate the tension of human connection. When a relationship got hard, they did one of two things, they tried to control the other person, or they completely shut down. Both strategies keep the cycle of pain running, and both teach the next generation the same broken patterns we are trying to escape.
The truth is, this exhaustion and disconnection doesn't just impact our marriages or friendships. It fractures the three most critical areas of our existence: our relationship with God, with ourselves, and with others.
We try harder at powerless strategies, but true transformation only happens when we learn to heal all three of these vital connections.
That is why KYLO University exists. We are a 16-week online school rooted in Matthew 22:36-38, where Jesus names the three relationships that matter most. We are entirely dedicated to helping you intentionally improve and cultivate each one.
We don't hand you a binder of abstract theory. Over sixteen weeks of practical training, we give you the wisdom and real-world tools you need to help heal your most vital connections.
The Core Problem:
The Exhaustion of Disconnection
You are tired.
You arrived here because a relationship in your life is fractured, and no matter how hard you try, you can't seem to fix it. But if you look a little deeper, the exhaustion goes further than that.
The Relational Wall: You feel stuck in a cycle of conflict or cold silence. You've tried managing, fixing, and walking on eggshells, but the connection remains broken.
The Spiritual Distance: God feels far away. You want to feel the embrace of the Father, but your quiet times feel like a chore, and His voice feels muffled by your anxiety.
The Inner Void: If someone asked you right now, "What do you need?" you wouldn't even know how to answer. You've spent so long managing everyone else's emotions and needs that you have lost track of your own heart.
You feel powerless. You've been taught that if you just try harder, pray harder, or change the other person, things will get better. But trying harder at a powerless strategy is only making you more weary.
The Welcome Solution: Becoming a Powerful Person
The good news is that you do not need the other person to change for your life to change. You do not need to perform to get closer to the Father. And you do not have to live disconnected from your own soul.
At KYLO University, we don't teach you how to control your circumstances. We train you how to be a powerful person. Through the Loving on Purpose framework, we help you rebuild connection from the inside out:
Connect to the Father → Discovers Your True Identity
Connect to Yourself → Defines Your Needs & Boundaries
Connect to Others → Builds a Culture of Honor
Reconnecting with the Father: We strip away the religious performance. You will learn to encounter a perfect Father who doesn't demand perfection, allowing His perfect love to cast out the fear that keeps you hiding.
Reconnecting with Yourself: You will learn to audit your own heart. We will teach you how to identify your needs, speak your truth, and set healthy boundaries, moving you from a lifestyle of self-sacrifice to one of self-stewardship.
Reconnecting with Others: Armed with your own identity and peace, you will learn how to Keep Your Love On, even when others throw tantrums, shut down, or push you away. You will shift from trying to control them to completely controlling yourself.
Our Promise: You cannot force another person to choose connection. But you can become a person so rooted in the Father's love and so powerful in your own identity that anxiety, drama, and disconnection no longer dictate your life.
Welcome to KYLO University. Let's turn your love on.
Your Instructors
Danny Silk
As an author and speaker, Danny Silk offers life-changing books, conferences, and resources drawn from decades of experience as a counselor, social worker, advocate, pastor, husband, father, grandfather, and leader. He is the co-founder of Loving On Purpose, a ministry equipping families, leaders, and communities around the world with tools for healthy connection and transformation.
Danny has been married to his wife, Sheri, for more than 40 years. Together they have built a strong family legacy, raising their three children, welcoming a son-in-law, and enjoying life with their three grandchildren. Through both his personal life and ministry leadership, Danny is passionate about helping people create thriving relationships, healthy cultures, and powerful connection in every area of life.
Brittney Serpell
Brittney Serpell is a trusted expert, author of the book Imperfect Parenting: Connection Over Perfection, and skilled communicator dedicated to strengthening relational health in marriages, families, and organizations worldwide. As the Executive Director at Loving on Purpose, a global non-profit, she brings a wealth of practical experience and tools to her leadership role. Brittney inspires audiences—whether individuals, couples, or parents—to believe the best about themselves and those they love, offering hope-filled solutions for everyday issues.
Brittney cohosts two popular podcasts: The KYLO Show with Danny Silk and Imperfect Parenting. Along with her husband, Ben, she provides expert marriage and family coaching through conferences, online workshops, and one-on-one sessions. Brittney is certified in Love and Logic and lives in Northern California with Ben and their three children.
Ben Serpell
Originally from Australia, Ben spent more than 10 years on staff in the youth department at Bethel Church before going on to work in Human Services as a Victim Advocate. He earned his BA in Social Work in Sacramento and has spent the last 25 years helping people navigate relational healing, emotional health, and personal transformation.
Ben helped build a leadership school and played a key role in establishing KYLO University, where he now serves as Director. Alongside his wife, Brittney, he teaches nationally and internationally on marriage, parenting, leadership, and healthy connection. He also co-leads Dragon Slayers with Danny Silk. Together, Ben and Brittney lead Loving On Purpose while raising their three children.
Known for his honesty, wisdom, and practical approach, Ben is passionate about equipping people with tools to build thriving relationships, resilient families, and healthy communities.
And More
KYLO University brings in specialty teachers and experts in their field throughout the 16 weeks.
Develop & Deepen Your Connections
1. Discover Your Connection To The Father
Strengthen your relationship with God by deepening your understanding of who He is and how He sees you. Align your daily life with His love and His purpose for you, whether you are single, married, parenting, leading, or in a season you did not expect.
2. Embrace Your True Identity
Look at your own heart and your own patterns. Get clear on who you are, what you carry, and what you are no longer willing to repeat. The strongest relationships in your life will be built on the foundation of you being grounded in your own identity first.
3. Cultivate Love For Others
Learn the practical tools and posture that build real connection.
Apply them in marriage, in singleness, with your kids, with your parents, with the brother you have not spoken to in two years, with the friend you keep avoiding. The same skills work across every relationship in your life.
Weekly Schedule
Mondays
Core Teaching, 1:00pm to 3:00pm PT. Live attendance encouraged. Replay available within 24 hours if you cannot make it live.
Thursday
Weekly Transformation Group, one hour. Live attendance required. This is the small-group practice space.
Classes begin Monday, August 17, 2026, and run for 16 weeks.
Why a 16-Week School (Not Another Weekend)
Most relationship trainings hand you a weekend and a binder. The weekend feels like a breakthrough. By Wednesday you are back in the same fight, holding a workbook you stopped opening. The problem is not the content. Nothing new actually took root in two days.
Here is what KYLO University is doing across sixteen weeks that a weekend cannot.
We are not asking you to learn more about the other person. We are asking you to build something new in yourself. Become powerful yourself first. Once that is in place, every relationship downstream of you starts to move.
Core Teachings deliver the framework. Transformation Groups are where you practice it, get coached on it, and watch other people use it in real life. You walk out with tools you actually use in real conversations with real people. The same skills work whether the hard relationship is your spouse, your sibling, your kid, your parent, or the friend you have been avoiding.
Everything You Need to Succeed
Become Powerful In All Your Relationships
Learn the framework that ends the cycle. Stop swinging between control and shutdown. Stop losing the same fight on a loop. Start showing up powerful in all of your most vital relationship.
Practical Tools You Use The Same Week
Every Core Teaching ends with a tool. Every Transformation Group is where you practice it. You leave week one with something you can apply at the dinner table that night. Not in 16 weeks. That night.
Restore Connection Across Every Relationship
The skill set is universal. It works on the spouse who has gone silent. It works on the adult sibling who will not return a text. It works on the teenager who slams doors. It works on the parent who never knew how to apologize. Same tools. Different rooms.
A Community of Growth-Minded People
You do not do this alone. Your Transformation Group meets weekly. People who are doing what you are doing, in different relationships, in different cities, in different countries, in different seasons. You watch each other change. You witness the wins.
A Whole Healthy Family Can Change The World
The thing most graduates say at the end of week 16 is: I am a different person, and because of my change, my family has changed. We are more connected than we have ever been, and the hope I have for a thriving legacy has been restored.
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1. Make Your Deposit Today
Make your deposit now and save $500 on your seat.
2. Get Onboarded
Your student portal opens immediately. You will receive your welcome packet, your
Transformation Group placement, and your week 1 prep.
3. Show Up August 17
First Core Teaching is Monday, August 17, 2026. You walk in the door already part of the cohort.
What's Included
The 16-Week Curriculum
32+ Core Teachings (live + replay access)
16 Transformation Group sessions (small group, live)
Weekly practice assignments and tools
Welcome packet and onboarding
12 months of free access to Life Academy
The Faculty and Community
Direct teaching from Danny Silk, Brittney Serpell, Ben Serpell
Specialty teaching from guest speakers and experts in their field
Trained Transformation Group facilitators
Private cohort community
Live Q&A access throughout the 16 weeks
Graduation cohort connection (alumni network)
The 16-Week Curriculum
16 Core Teachings (live + replay access)
16 Transformation Group sessions (small group, live)
The full KYLO 5 framework, taught and put to work
Weekly practice assignments and tools
Lifetime access to recorded teachings
Welcome packet and onboarding
The Faculty and Community
Direct teaching from Danny Silk, Brittney Serpell, Ben Serpell
Specialty teaching from Dr. Margaret Nagib and Bill Johnson
Trained Transformation Group facilitators
Private cohort community
Live Q&A access throughout the 16 weeks
Graduation cohort connection (alumni network)
Enroll Today For $99
For this cohort, the KYLO University deposit is $99 (regularly $1,499).
What You Get
32+ Core Teachings, live and recorded ($1,500 value)
16 Transformation Group sessions, live small-group practice ($800 value)
12 months of free access to Life Academy ($120 value)
The full KYLO 5 framework, taught and put to work across 16 weeks ($600 value)
Private cohort community for the 16 weeks and after ($300 value)
"How to Set Healthy Boundaries" PDF guide ($25 value)
Total stated value: $3,345
Get Started Today for a Deposit of $99
100% Money-Back Guarantee
We believe wholeheartedly in the power of our program to deepen your connection with God, yourself, and others, and we want you to feel confident in your investment.
That’s why we offer an unconditional, 16-week satisfaction guarantee. If you fully participate in the KYLO U program and don’t experience a transformation in your relationships and personal growth, we will offer you a full refund.
Don’t let another day go by feeling misunderstood and disconnected. It’s time to experience the profound peace and joy that comes from real, lasting connections.
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Registration Deposit for KYLO University
Complete your registration by providing your payment details and paying your $99 deposit.
Here's everything you're getting again:
32+ Core Teachings, live and recorded ($1,500 value)
16 Transformation Group sessions, live small-group practice ($800 value)
12 months of free access to Life Academy ($120 value)
The full KYLO 5 framework, taught and put to work across 16 weeks ($600 value)
Private cohort community for the 16 weeks and after ($300 value)
"How to Set Healthy Boundaries" PDF guide ($25 value)
Complete your registration by providing your payment details.
Registration Deposit for KYLO University
Complete your enrollment by reserving your seat with a $99 deposit. Your balance ($898 if paid in full, or four installments if you choose the payment plan) is billed on the schedule you select at checkout.
Your enrollment bonuses included:
• 3 months of free access to the Life Academy Membership ($45 value)
• "How to Set Healthy Boundaries" PDF guide ($25 value)
Please note: the $99 deposit is nonrefundable. The remaining tuition is covered by the 16-week money-back guarantee.
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Frequently Asked Questions
When Does School Start?
KYLO University 2026 starts Sunday, August 17, 2026. Registration closes Thursday, August 7.
How Long Is School?
16 weeks. We meet weekly for Core Teachings (Mondays) and Transformation Groups (Thursdays). The school runs from August 17, 2026 through early December 2026.
Do I Need To Attend All Sessions Live?
Core Teachings on Mondays are encouraged live but not required. Replays are available within 24 hours. Transformation Groups on Thursdays are required live. Three time slot options are available so you can find one that works for your schedule.
What Does Homework Look Like?
Each week comes with a practical tool and an assignment. Expect 30 to 60 minutes of weekly application work outside of class. The homework is designed for real life, not theory. You apply the tool with the people you actually live and work with.
I'm Single (Or Going Through A Hard Season Alone). Is This For Me?
Yes. KYLO University is built around the relationships that matter most. With God. With yourself. With others. "Others" is universal: spouse, sibling, parent, friend, adult child, coworker, the person you have not spoken to in two years. The tools work regardless of your relationship status.
What If My Spouse Won't Come?
Start with you. The most powerful transformations in this program start with one person doing the work, not two. When you change how you show up, the dynamic shifts. Your spouse may follow later. They often do, because they see the change.
Where Can I Get More Information About Classes, Structure, And Curriculum?
Email our enrollment team at [email protected] or join the next free info session. The "Register Now" button on this page also opens our 24/7 enrollment chat.
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